6) Now it's time for the ole' elevator trick. You are alone in an elevator in a high rise with a gorgeous woman and you simply can't let this incredible chance pass you by. What do you do?     A. Ask her for directions to the basement.   B. Tell her you've seen her around and admired her from afar.Then ask if she's attached.   C. Ask her if she'd like to join you for bagels and crème cheese.   D. Say, "Well, I know men must fall all over you all the time, but I thought I'd strike up a chat to see if you're nice under all that beauty.         7) Ah -- it's the first kiss time. At least, that's what you want. You've had a couple dates with this woman you like a lot. First was coffee, and this time, dinner. You are crazy about her, but doing a good job of staying cool. The thing is, you can't get a handle on how she feels about you. What can you do to find out?   A. Play footsy with her and see how she reacts.   B. Wait for a quiet moment, then smile at her, take your glasses off in one smooth move (borrow the glasses if you have to), lean towards her, take her chin, gently but firmly, in your hand, and then kiss her. Start lip-to-lip and see what she does.   C. Take her hand and ask her if it's okay for you to kiss her.   D. Wait until you take her home and then kiss her at the door.         8) Have you ever had a woman give you her phone number out of the blue without you asking? We're talking manna from heaven, right? But, there is this one minor complication -- what do you do now? Yep -- in the bank line, you and the gorgeous woman in front of you in line have struck up a conversation and discovered some chemistry between you. So, she reaches in to her purse, hands you her business card, and says "Call me" as she leaves the line and walks up to the teller. Well, before we get to the answers of how do you proceed, the first thing I want you to do is get your jaw up off the ground!     A. As soon as you get home, pick up the phone, tell her you want to see her again soon, and see if she'll join you for coffee later that day.   B. Get out of the line, and wait for her at the door. When she approaches, ask her to go for coffee right then and there.   D. Call her in three or four days, talk for a bit, then very cheerily say you have to go, will talk again soon, and hang up. Don't, I repeat don't, offer to give her your phone number.   C. Call when you think she won't answer and leave a message with your phone number, asking her to call you back.         9) Alright. We're, or I should say, you're moving along. You've met this positively charming, bright, pretty woman, and you've done the coffee thing, the first dinner thing, and now you're into the second dinner thing with a pretty heady kiss at the end of the date. I mean, we're talking some real attraction. But, you keep things respectable, and say goodnight at the door. Now the question becomes -- what do you do next?     A. Nothing, do nothing. Act as if it never happened, keep up the same friendly tone, call her to chat without always asking her out, and keep it light.   B. Call her as soon as you get home and tell her you think she is special and you want to see her again -- soon. But don't say when "soon" may be.   C. Send her an e-card the next day that is gushy and romantic.   D. Send her an e-card the next day that is funny and light.         10) Here's one you're not going to like. You're sitting in a coffee shop waiting for this babe you met in the elevator to meet you. Your date was for 10 am and I t's now 10:45. You feel stupid and humiliated, and think everyone in the whole place knows you've been stood up (not true). What do you do now?     A. Slink out the door, never go back to that coffee shop again, and forget about the bitch.   B. Finish your coffee, walk tall and proud out the door, and call her on your cell. Being friendly and cheerful you confidently say that one of you obviously got your schedule screwed up and that she is to meet you there tomorrow at the same time.   C. While still sitting in the coffee shop, call her and ask her where the heck she is?   D. Walk proudly out the door and forget about the whole thing.         Conclusion Well gents, there you have it. My humble two-cents worth on the art of various and sundry dating scenarios. Hope these help. Remember, I'm always around to offer my help and advice, so just send off an email any time. Fill in your name and email address and we will send you the result to your email, please opt-in so we know the email address is correct Your email address will be kept strictly confidential and will only be used to keep you informed about our program. Name: Email: